Friday, November 23, 2007

What To DO When Your CHILD VOMITS

I am writing this to help other parents out there to know what they should do when their child vomits. Most of the time, parents and/or caregivers of the child try to replace the amount that was vomitted with a fluid & electrolyte replacement immediately after the child has vomitted. WRONG!!!

Read on ... Just 2 days ago, Lance, my 1 year old, vomitted his dinner. I believe we overfed him. His last food intake was about 8 in the evening of Tuesday, 20 Nov. '07. After a couple of hours, he asked for milk (about 5 ounces) and then after another 3 hours, he asked for milk again (another 5 ounces). By 3am, he vomitted all that he ate and drank. The vomitus have not been digested.

It was a good thing that I talked to a friend of mine just recently whose grandchild was hospitalized due to vomitting and diarrhea. She clearly told me her mistake ... she gave her grandchild fluids immediately after vomiting which was WRONG ... She said that the hospital personnel told her that she should have waited about 3-4 hours before giving her some fluids. And, that was what I did with Lance when he vomitted. I waited it out ...

Now, here's the information you need. I got this from my childcare book (Caring For Your Baby And Young Child - Birth to Age 5):

Since many common childhood illnesses can cause vomiting, you should expect your child to have this problem several times during these early years. Usually, IT ENDS QUICKLY WITHOUT TREATMENT, but this doesn't make it any easier for you to watch.

FIRST OF All, there's a DIFFERENCE BETWEEN REAL VOMITING and just SPITTING UP.

VOMITING is the forceful throwing up of stomach contents through the mouth. SPITTING UP (most commonly seen in infants under 1 year of age) is the easy flow of stomach contents out of the mouth, frequently with a burp.

HERE'S WHAT TO DO:

In most cases, vomiting will stop without specific medical treatment. You should never use OVER-THE-COUNTER or prescription remedies unless they've been specifically prescribed by your pediatrician.

1. When your infant or young child is vomiting, keep her lying on her stomach or side as much as possible. This will minimize the chances of vomit being inhaled into the upper airway and lungs.

2. For the 1st 24 hours, keep your child OFF SOLID FOODS. Liquids not only help to prevent dehydration, but also are less likely than solid foods to stimulate further vomiting. Encourage her to suck or drink clear fluids such as:

  • water
  • sugar water (half teaspoon [2.5cc] sugar in 4 oz. [120ml] of water)
  • popsicles
  • gelatin water (1 tsp [5cc] of flavored gelatin in 4 oz. [120ml] of water)
  • electrolyte solution
  • chicken noodle soup (about 1-2oz [30-60cc])

3. GUIDELINE FOR GIVING FLUIDS AFTER YOUR CHILD HAS VOMITTED:

  • WAIT for 2-3 hours after the last vomitting episode, and then give 1-2 oz of cool water every 30 mins - 1 hour for 4 feedings;
  • If she retains this, give 2 oz of electrolyte solution alternated with 2 oz of clear liquids every 30 mins;
  • If this is retained for 2 feedings, add half strength formula or milk (depending upon age), and continue increasing the quantity slowly to 3-4 oz every 3-4 hours.
  • Example. After retaining the electrolyte solution alternated with clear liquids, next fluid to be given after 30 mins is 2oz. formula or milk that is half the normal dilution (If the normal dilution is 2oz:2scoops; then you give 2oz:1scoop), if this is retained give 3oz (still half the normal dilution) after 3-4 hours, then if still (-) vomiting, give 4oz (still half the normal dilution) after 3-4 hours till she reaches about 6oz or whatever is her normal quantity milk intake.
  • Eventually normalize the dilution when she has retained the half strength formula or milk that was given at a normal quantity.

4. After 12-24 hours with (-) vomiting, gradually return your child to her normal diet, but continue to give her plenty of clear fluids.

5. In most cases, your child will just need to stay at home and receive a liquid diet for 12-24 hours. Your pediatrician usually won't prescribe a drug to treat the vomiting.

6. If SHE CAN'T RETAIN ANY CLEAR LIQUIDS or the symptoms become more severe, notify your pediatrician. She will examine your child and may order blood and urine tests or x-rays to make a diagnosis. Occasionally, hospital care may be necessary.

7. Occasionally, infections outside the gastro-intestinal tract will cause vomiting and such conditions MAY REQUIRE IMMEDIATE MEDICAL TREATMENT, so BE ALERT for the following TROUBLE SIGNS whatever your child's age: (NOTIFY YOUR PEDIATRICIAN ASAP)

  • blood or bile (a green-colored material) in the vomitus
  • severe abdominal pain
  • strenuous, repeated vomiting
  • swollen abdomen
  • lethargy or severe irritability
  • convulsions
  • signs or symptoms of dehydration, including dry mouth, absent tears, depression of the "soft spot," and decreased urination
  • inability to drink adequate amounts of fluid
  • vomiting continuing beyond 12-24 hours

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Saturday, November 17, 2007

Lifestyle check daw ...

LIFESTYLE CHECK daw ...

Got this from Tanya Ortha (http://tanyaortha.multiply.com/journal/item/111/Lifestyle_Check) who got it from Tippytots ...

1. What's the brand of your wristwatch?

TIMEX (inarbor ko sa mommy ko)

2. What's the brand of your bracelet?

N/A, don't wear bracelets except during special occassions

3. What's the brand of your cellphone?

NOKIA 3100

4. What's the brand of your computer?

not branded, GENERIC ... kami lang ni Mon ang bumuo

5. What's the brand of your bag?

KIM ROGERS (siempre, galing din kay ermats)

6. What's the brand of your flip flop?

SKETCHERS (minana ko kay mommy ... ngayon, kahit lasog-lasog na sya, dahil sa sya ang favorite ko, ito pa rin ang gamit ko)

7. What's the brand of your wallets?

Nine West

8. What's the brand of your perfume?

Happy by Clinique, which of course, I rarely use because of my kids ... kaya madalas cologne na lang

9. What's the brand of your shirts?

Iba-iba, depende kung ano ipadala ni madir

10. What's the brand of your tv?

Philips

11. What's the brand of your car?

Honda Civic

12. What's the brand of your shampoo and conditioner?

Sunsilk and Sunsilk pa rin

13. What's the brand of your body soap?

Dial

14. What's the brand of your dental floss?

Cleene

15. What's the brand of your jeans?

Levi's

16. What's the brand of your laundry soap?

Tide

17. What's the brand of your lotion?

Vaseline

18. What's the brand of your toothpaste?

Close-up

19. What's the brand of your ballpen?

BIC

wala lang ...

Why God Made Moms ...

Why God made Moms --

BRILLIANT Answers given by 2nd grade school children to the following questions!!

Why did God make mothers?
1. She's the only one who knows where the scotch tape is.
2. Mostly to clean the house.
3. To help us out of there when we were getting born.

How did God make mothers?
1. He used dirt, just like for the rest of us.
2. Magic plus super powers and a lot of stirring
3. God made my Mom just the same like he made me. He Just used bigger parts.

What ingredients are mothers made of?
1. God makes mothers out of clouds and angel hair and everything nice in the world and one dab of mean.
2. They had to get their start from men's bones. Then they mostly use string, I think.

Why did God give you Your mother & not some other mom?
1. We're related
2. God knew she likes me a lot more than other people's moms like me.

What kind of little girl was your mom?
1. My mom has always been my mom and none of that other stuff.
2. I don't know because I wasn't there, but my guess would be pretty bossy.
3. They say she used to be nice.

What did mom need to know about dad before she married him?
1. His last name.
2. She had to know his background. Like is he a crook? Does he get drunk on beer?
3. Does he make at least $800 a year? Did he say NO to drugs and YES to chores?

Why did your mom marry your dad?
1. My dad makes the best spaghetti in the world. And my Mom eats a lot.
2. She got too old to do anything else with him.
3. My grandma says that Mom didn't have her thinking cap on. (I almost peed my pants when I read this one)

Who's the boss at your house?
1. Mom doesn't want to be boss, but she has to because dad's such a goof ball.
2. Mom. You can tell by room inspection. She sees the stuff under the bed.
3. I guess Mom is, but only because she has a lot more to do than dad.

What's the difference between moms & dads?
1. Moms work at work and work at home & dads just go to work at work.
2. Moms know how to talk to teachers without scaring them.
3. Dads are taller & stronger, but moms have all the real power 'cause that's who you got to ask if you want to sleep over at your friend's.
4. Moms have magic, they make you feel better without medicine.

What does your mom do in her spare time?
1. Mothers don't do spare time.
2. To hear her tell it, she pays bills all day long.

What would it take to make your mom perfect?
1. On the inside she's already perfect. Outside, I think some kind of plastic surgery.
2. Diet. You know, her hair. I'd diet, maybe blue.

If you could change one thing about your Mom, what would it be?
1. She has this weird thing about me keeping my room clean. I'd get rid of that.
2. I'd make my Mom smarter. Then she would know it was my sister who did it and not me.
3. I would like for her to get rid of those invisible eyes on the back of her head.

taken from: http://tippytots.multiply.com/journal/item/60/reposting_from_simoneposh_WHY_DID_GOD_MAKE_MOMS_hear_childrens_answers

Top 3s

TOP 3'S (got this from my cousin Jobie's friendster bulletin post)

3 NAMES THAT FRIENDS CALL YOU

  1. Love
  2. Lovelia
  3. ***

3 MOST IMPORTANT MONTHS IN YOUR LIFE

  1. June
  2. September
  3. December

3 THINGS YOU'VE DONE IN THE LAST 33 MINUTES

  1. Check my yahoo email
  2. Read comments on my multiply site
  3. Check my friendster

3 WAYS TO BE HAPPY

  1. Spend time with family
  2. Stay within the budget
  3. Go out once in a while

3 THINGS YOU LIKE IN A PERSON

  1. good conversationalist
  2. humility
  3. patience

3 GIFTS YOU WOULD LIKE TO RECEIVE

  1. usb flash drive
  2. 4 - AA rechargeable batteries
  3. havaianas slippers (size 8)

3 FAVORITE HOBBIES

  1. taking pictures and posting them
  2. blogging
  3. surfing the web

3 PLACES YOU WANT TO GO FOR A HOLIDAY

  1. USA
  2. Hong Kong
  3. Boracay

3 FAVORITE CARTOON CHARACTERS

  1. Barbie
  2. Strawberry Shortcake
  3. My Little Pony

3 GIRL'S/BOY'S NAMES

  1. Chloe
  2. Lance
  3. Ashley

3 MALLS YOU USUALLY GO TO

  1. Festival Mall
  2. Alabang Town Center
  3. SM - Muntinlupa

3 OF YOUR FAVORITE FASTFOOD CHAINS

  1. Jolibee
  2. Mc Donald's
  3. Wendy's

3 FAVORITE DRINKS

  1. Watermelon shake
  2. Lipton green tea
  3. Lipton red tea

3 THINGS FOUND IN YOUR BAG

  1. wallet
  2. hand sanitizer
  3. tissue

3 PERFUMES / COLOGNES

  1. Angel's breath
  2. Victoria's Secret Love Spell
  3. Issey Miyake

3 FAVORITE COLORS

  1. white
  2. green
  3. pink

3 EVENTS YOU ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO

  1. a visit from my mom
  2. new year reunion with the Rebosas
  3. summer vacation

Thursday, November 15, 2007

Christmas 3 + 1 = 2007

Something's different this year ... nope, it's not the Christmas tree nor the decorations to be put up. It's our Christmas tree (3+1) formula ... This year, we're no longer a tree (3) ... We have an addition to the family ... (+) LANCE.

Last year, when Mon put up our Christmas tree, Lance was only about 2 months old. He was just staring at the lights and most of the decorations were done by his sister. This year, he had more active participation. In his own little way, he tried his best to help his sister. He takes the balls and flowers out of the box and gives them to Chloe. Funny because most of the balls and flowers ended up on the floor while an angry big sister was losing her patience. Ahahaha! You should have seen Chloe's face >:o( hehehe! She was yelling at me to stop taking pictures and hold Lance instead because she was already tired of picking up after the Christmas decorations that Lance left across the entire floor. It was so funny!

Anyway, when Mon turned on the Christmas lights, the little boy stopping trying to help his sister. Instead, his attention was caught by the lights all over the tree. He was fascinated! He enjoyed looking at his reflection on the shiny balls. Good thing he was just holding and touching the balls instead of his usual gnawing and putting things in his mouth.

And so, here's the division of labor:

(1) Mon assembled the tree and placed the Christmas lights ...

(2) Chloe and I decorated the tree with balls and flowers ...

(3) Lance ... well, he sort of tried to help with decorating the tree ... hahaha! We just allowed him to put the angel on top of the tree ...

(4) Lastly, Mon and I placed the ribbon and then decorated our plants outside with Christmas lights.

Hopefully by December, we shall be adding more decorations ...

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

A Pup Named, "Moccha" ...

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This one is dedicated to Chloe's "supposedly" first puppy ... "MOCCHA"

Chloe has been nagging me and Mon for a puppy for months now. One day, while waiting for a jeep near Alabang's palenke, specifically near Jollibee. I saw these women standing in front of 7-11 with various puppies on hand. That was when my eye caught this cute little moccha colored puppy. I asked for the lady if she had miniature breeds. I didn't want big dogs. I planned on keeping a small dog inside the house keeping in mind that small dogs ate small, peed small and stools will be small as well.

She took "moccha" and this other black and white colored dog that looked like an "askal" (aka. "asong kalye"). She said that she's selling them for Php 1,200. I said, "Ate, pasensya na kaya lang P500 lang pera ko". We bargained ... she didn't want to lower the price at first because it was "moccha" that I liked and she said that "moccha" was a "beagle". Well, I said, I might as well go home because I don't have enough money ... She said that she bought the puppy for P600 and would settle for P700. We closed the deal ...

I called Mon and informed him what I planned and told him the price. He gave me the "go" signal.

Upon arriving home, Chloe was so surprised! Lots of thank you's, hugs and kisses as well as promises of being a good girl were heard from her. I could see her eyes shining. She couldn't keep her excitement! It was as if a new baby arrived. Actually, "moccha" was a baby when we got her as she was only 1 and a half month.

Chloe played with Moccha, carried her around, watched her sleep, went everywhere with her inside the house. Lance was even fond of her as well. He would try to pat her head or caress her fur.

24 hours later, Rosalie, our household helper had eyebags from the night before. Moccha kept her awake ... She wanted to play all night whilst she slept almost the whole day, the day before.

Moccha was now more playful ... drank alot of milk ... ate a lot of dog food ... and then ... peed a lot ... pooed a lot too ... We just couldn't keep up. There were just too many stools and wiwi all over the house. It's not as if we could buy a puppy diaper for her (sigh* how i wish ...)

Then, it just hit me ... we couldn't keep Moccha ... She was an additional baby that needed even more attention than Lance and almost nothing was accomplished in the house because we had to keep an eye on her and Lance ...

We finally decided that we had to give Moccha away ... Mon and I talked to Chloe ... explained to her that she was still too young and not yet responsible enough to take care of a puppy. We were also afraid that Moccha might accidentally bite Chloe because she was becoming too playful and beginning to become rough. Moccha doesn't have shots yet. The vet said it is usually on the 3rd month birthday that shots are given to puppies. We told Chloe that when she is big enough to take care of the puppy herself, then we would buy her another one.

I guess Chloe understood our point and so, she obliged. We thought of someone who loved dogs and whom we knew we could visit when we want to see Moccha and all of us agreed that we would give her to Mon's cousin, Gerald.

We texted Gerald and asked if he was interested to give a puppy a home. We told him what happened and sure enough, he was happy to take her. The same night, Gerald and Tita Tess came over to pick up Moccha. We told Chloe that maybe when she's big enough, Moccha might have her own puppies and her Tito Gerald will just give her one.

And, the rest is history ... maybe next time, I will post pics of what Moccha looks like now ... on our next visit to Gerald, of course.

Simple pleasures ...

I call these type of moments, "simple pleasures" ... When I see my kids pose for me like this, I just can't stop myself from capturing the moment ... As it is, both of them are growing fast before my eyes ...

Aside from that, it's just so hard to get a decent picture of the two ... Lance just isn't the type to pose for you on cue ... Add the fact that he is into wal;king and running lately ... hehehe!

Gigil!

"Gigil!" ... Yup, "nanggigil si Mon kay Chloe kaya pinapak ng halik" Hahaha! Mon just adores his princess ... He loves giving her hugs and kisses espescially when she dresses up so "kikayish" and smells so good.

Now, you know how Chloe reacts to her Daddy's "panggigigil" ;p

Sleeping on Halloween ...

Halloween day was spent at home. After the Glorietta incident, Mon didn't want us going to the mall. And so, we just kept the kid pre-occupied at home with stuff ...

Evening came and both kids were exhausted from playing ...

I took this picture when Lance woke up in the middle of the night and moved over from his bed to sleep beside her sister, Chloe. They just looked so cute! I couldn't help myself get a snapshot :)

Baby Items for SALE!

My youngest, Lance, has outgrown some of his baby stuff which is why Mon and I decided to sell them. If you're wondering why, it's because we won't be having any more kids. I had a bilateral tubal ligation performed at the same time when I gave birth to Lance via cesarean section.

I've already posted the infant car seat by Cosco, baby monitor by Evenflo, walker by Chicco and playpen/play yard by Century at our PHOTOS section. These are all in good condition and some would even pass as brand new.

I will be adding more items in the future and will let you ALL know.

Thank you and God bless!

Sunday, November 11, 2007

My Breastfeeding Experience, Part 1 - "Give Breastfeeding A Chance"

My Breastfeeding Experience – Part 2

“Give BREASTFEEDING A Chance”

Breastfeeding is just one of the challenges that women go through when they enter motherhood. I salute those mothers who were able to commit themselves to breastfeeding their children for at least 6 months. Yup, it has to be a minimum of 6 months. That’s what my pediatrician told me. You need to breastfeed for a minimum of 6 months to reach that goal of giving your child a stronger immune system. Then again, breastfeeding even for a short period of time is better that not being able to breastfeed at all.

I am not criticizing those who did not breastfeed their children nor those who breastfed their children for less than 6 months. Of course, breastfeeding is a CHOICE. I am writing this to encourage mothers to try breastfeeding. Once you have started, stay committed. It’s very hard to commit yourself to breastfeeding your baby for at least 6 months, but it is possible.

As a matter of fact, I am guilty … Guilty because I was not able to breastfeed my eldest. Six years ago, I had this notion that breastfeeding the baby for a few days to a week was enough. I thought that as long as my baby was able to feed on the colostrum (the first milk which is slightly yellowish in color that is rich in antibodies), it was enough. I was definitely not into breastfeeding. I found it too hard … I didn’t even bother trying hard enough. I tried breastfeeding Chloe when they roomed her in the hospital but found “latching-on” difficult. She would be able to latch-on and suck vigorously but eventually, she would lose grip on my nipple. I found it hard to see her so hungry and frustrated which is why I eventually gave in to feeding her with milk formula. Eventually, I used my small nipple as an alibi to breastfeeding. I didn’t even try to learn how to make the baby latch on properly nor try different breastfeeding positions. I just gave up …

I thought, bottle feeding was more convenient and my husband would be able to take turns with me during the night feedings. Vanity also took toll on me. I was afraid that my breasts would sag as a result of breastfeeding. I didn’t get any support from family. Nobody encouraged me to try breastfeeding nor explained to me the benefits that came with it. My father volunteered to provide us with milk formula because he gets about 30-40% discount from My-lac and Hi-nulac (products from the company he worked for) as one of the privileges of a retired employee of Unilab. This was an additional reason for me to choose milk formula than breastfeeding.

Why am I sharing this experience? It’s not too late! If you didn’t try breastfeeding like I did before, you can always try again with your succeeding children.

More mature now and more prepared for the coming of a new baby, I told myself that I would give breastfeeding another chance. This time, the nurses from Medical Center Muntinlupa’s NICU were very encouraging and supportive. My pediatrician and the pedia-resident on duty talked to me about breastfeeding and its benefits. My OB-GYNE also encouraged me to breastfeed. Even my parents and my hubby were supportive as well. Because of all these, I became determined to try it and stay committed.

Kindly read my previous blog, “My Breastfeeding Experience” about what I went through when I started breastfeeding as well as the benefits to both the mother and the baby.

And so, I tried and got the hang of it. I found breastfeeding as a wonderful experience despite the minor discomforts I had to go through. Breastfeeding was “bonding time” between me and Lance. It felt really good that I have something to share with my child that I alone could give him. This was a priceless 10 months experience … And, I actually miss it …

Again, to all the pregnant women and new mothers out there, I urge all of you to give breastfeeding a try. It won’t be easy at first but once you get the hang of it, it will bring you and your baby numerous benefits plus the joy that you will feel confirms “mommyhood”.

Please prepare yourself emotionally and physically for this job. A lot of love, encouragement and support from family and friends are also key points to the success of breastfeeding.

Once you are able to achieve the goal – breastfeeding for a minimum of 6 months … In the end, you will know that it is ALL WORTH IT.